Controlled Fire

Sometimes it's easier just tok to your leaders.
Had a chat with PC last nite. Sharing my struggle in striking a balance in all my thots, fiery passion and cool-headed passion and easily she answered me that only 'Controlled Fire' can make things work. Consuming fires can burn down things and injure people and cause destruction. but only Controlled Fire are put to used.
So i guess that should settle my balance part...